CIAA weekend- March 6, 2005

6 March 2006

So I actually had no intentions of doing a journal entry tonight, but Eric insisted…no, SUGGESTED I do such. And while I don’t much feel like typing tonight, I think a journal entry might be good to help me sort out my thoughts and feelings about things. I have decided not to post it because what I write may hurt someone before I get the chance to speak to them. So where do I start? Well I went to Charlotte this weekend to take in the CIAA tournament. The highly ironic part is that I didn’t participate in one CIAA event. Not one. When we first got to Charlotte, April and I went and got our eyebrows done and then went to see Tresha’s new apartment. It’s really nice and I am rather surprised to see her and her husband back together after all of the drama they have been through. She is now watching her niece and her god son. She really wants to be pregnant so I guess this is her way of incorporating that need for motherhood into her life. I think her ability to not get pregnant is a blessing, considering her situation.
After we left there, we went to Rock Bottom restaurant for lunch. We were still in our traveling clothes because we couldn’t check into the hotel until after 3. As we were heading toward the restaurant, I called Eric and he suggested meeting us there for something to eat. I was a little reluctant because of my appearance and spent about 10 mins in the bathroom brushing my hair down from where it had been clipped up earlier. We sat down for a while and he arrived just as we had gotten our appetizers. I must admit he is exactly like I envisioned. Well I saw his picture before but sometimes pictures can make people look differently. He sat across from me, on April’s right, which made me a bit nervous while I was eating. I was trying to mind my manners and not look as hungry as I was. Actually I got full rather quickly and had take-out. Lunch was relatively uneventful. We talked and laughed. However he would look at me at times in a way that made me nervous. It’s hard to explain. As we were heading to the car he mentioned meeting us later that night at the club and told me to call him later. April and I went to the hotel, checked in and took a nap.
I woke up around 10 and started getting ready to leave. I think we left around 11:30pm for the club. The plan was to go to Club Myxx, which is a gay club. It took us forever to get through the traffic uptown and by the time we got to the club, the line was wrapped around the building. April was a little upset because of it. Neither of us had any idea it would be so bad. Eric met us at Myxx and I rode with him while we followed April and Jamil to another club. Harrigans I think was the name. It was lesbian bar really. Eric bought me a drink and we danced for awhile. I think it was only about 40 mins left before the bar closed anyway. He was kind of fun to dance with, not to mention he turned me on with the way he danced on me. As we left the bar he placed his hand around my neck and led me out. It made my cheeks burn slightly. It reminded me of the way Mitch used to put his hands around my neck. We went back to my hotel room and he suggested I change clothes and he taught me how to give a massage. To make a long story short, we had sex and he left me unbelievably sore. He started to put on his pants and I was afraid I had met a hit and quit it guy but he ended up staying the night.
Sunday morning I called April but she was still in a bad mood from the previous night and had decided to go out alone for the day. I got up had brunch with Miesha and we did some browsing in a few stores until about 5 pm. I came back to the room and took a small nap and called Eric who said he would be over later. I walked over to Bob Evans and ordered dinner sometime before 9 and brought it back to the room. When he got to the room I sat on the window seat and watched him lay on the bed. I liked the idea of sitting and talking and watching him for a while. The last thing I want for him to think is that this is only sex. Finally I got down off the window seat and laid on the bed beside him. He talked about my ass and started spanking it. Then he had me tell him stories while he teased me. It was such a turn on and a struggle at the same time. We had sex again and he came 3 or 4 times, which is absolutely remarkable to me because I have never seen a man do that in one night. Honestly I felt insatiable. Like I could be fucked for hours and never get tired. He also had me suck his cock, which I enjoyed a lot more than normal. You know what sticks out more than any sexual act I did all weekend? The fact that he kissed me. Admittedly I have had sex with men I haven’t and wouldn’t kiss. I have always felt kisses are as intimate as you get. He had to leave a little after midnight because had to work this morning but I am glad he came over. I got up this morning and packed up my bags. April came to the door with Mo, who I got to meet for the first time. She is cute, kinda like a little boy. Mo helped me put my things in the car while April did the check out. As April and I were heading to IHOP for breakfast, she told me that Mo had heard me moaning last night. I was sooo embarrassed. I had no idea I was that loud.
Well that’s the weekend in a nutshell and I had an absolutely wonderful time. I can’t really complain about anything. I had a great time, met a great person and actually got to sleep not only nude but in quiet. It really makes me miss what I had in college. I suppose that my only complaints are that one…April didn’t have the best weekend, two… I didn’t get to see the battle of the bands, three…I can’t really share the entire details of my weekend to Michael for obvious reasons and four…while I really do enjoy being with Eric he can really have an “I’m right and you’re wrong” kind of disposition which can be a serious turn off in high doses.